Anonymous said: Hey :) I have a question. This new years I was at a party and was talking to a guy (this was the first time I met him), as anyone does. Around midnight, as we all celebrated and I went around hugging everyone, on the third time I hugged him he kissed me. I'm 16 and hes a few years older. Afterwards I felt stupid because I felt like I'd wasted my first kiss on a time where we were both tipsy and as cheesy as it may be, I wanted it to be with some one I actually liked (continued)
yes… and since I don’t know how to kiss I’m just really embarrassed. I left to fly home the following day, and since then I just feel like I wasted it
as I feel like he may have been using me, so I just feel really dumb and annoyed at myself. Also, it wasn’t ‘magical’ like everyone says it is. So basically, I’m just wondering as to whether I should worry about it as much as I am? And any general advice you may have on the subject. Sorry it’s long, and I didn’t really have anyone else to ask. Thanks for any advice though.
I really don’t think you should worry too much about what happened. I know that for some people the first kiss is meant to be a big deal but it could have been worse, I suppose. At least you didn’t have sex with him so you don’t need to feel like he just used you or anything, per se. There are many kisses to be had in a lifetime and if you want the next ones to be special, make them special. (: You didn’t make any major mistake by kissing this guy a few times and you’re not a bad person. Best of luck on your future smooch endeavours.